
Traveling with Him
Twenty Third Sunday in Ordinary Time – Year C
Collect
O God, by whom we are redeemed and receive adoption, look graciously upon your beloved sons and daughters, that those who believe in Christ may receive true freedom and an everlasting inheritance. Through our Lord Jesus Christ, your Son, who lives and reigns with you in the unity of the Holy Spirit, one God, for ever and ever. Amen
Reflection
In today’s Gospel, Jesus is not satisfied just to have us as followers. He also desires to make us aware of the price that we must be prepared to pay. Large crowds never impress Jesus. What matters to Him is the motivation of those who follow. He even places three conditions upon those who want to follow Him:
“Whoever comes to me and does not hate father and mother, wife and children, brothers and sisters, yes, and even life itself …”
“Whoever does not carry the cross and follow me …”
“… if you do not give up all your possessions.”
Apart from this, the call to follow Jesus requires thoughtful discernment: “For which of you, intending to build a tower, does not first sit down and estimate the cost … Or what king, going out to wage war against another king, will not sit down first ...”
Jesus invites us to sit down and discern whether we are able to reach the goals He sets. When I sit in silence with this passage, I become aware of the thoughts and sentiments that well up inside of me. Do Jesus’ words confuse me? What is He asking of me? How can Jesus ask me to place Him before those who are dear to me, before my possessions? I might come to the point of giving up my possessions, but it is not that easy to give up those who are dear to me. Our emotional and material attachments can come between us and Jesus and consequently weaken our ability to follow Him.
In his Spiritual Exercises, St Ignatius of Loyola tells us that Jesus desires us to be free from the disorders that these attachments bring to our lives. It is a fact that Jesus has a great desire to bring order into our lives. Discernment helps us recognise our limits and frees us from unrealistic conclusions.
Jesus desires that we follow Him, detached from lamenting what we have left behind to do so. Like Peter, we might calculate what we have to give up, as well as what we expect in return as compensation.
In another passage, Jesus tells us that whatever we leave behind for love of Him, He will repay a hundred times over. Do you remember these words?
Prayer
Lord, deliver me from being discouraged to follow You.
Stay beside me and allow me to lay my heart bear before You.